THE BEAUTY OF LOVE

                             YOU'LL KNOW THEM WHEN YOU MEET THEM.     Guys,guess what,Whenever i meet this very cute and handsome guy in my class my heart skips a beat.Do you think he's my Mr Right ?.To be quite honest, I’m not sure this is entirely true  but i want to try my luck . Some people do know the instant they meet their future partner that this is the person they’ve been looking for all their life. But it doesn’t work like that for everyone.      The real rule is that if you’re not sure if this is the right one,don’t take a gamble on it. If they are the right one, you will know it, even if it takes a bit of time.In other words, if it’s right you will be sure,either straight away, or a bit later but you will know. If you’re absolutely sure this is the right person the moment you lock eyes on them, you’re very lucky. Unless it happens to you every time, in which case you...

YOU WON'T BE HAPPY WITH A PARTNER UNTIL YOU CAN  BE HAPPY ON YOUR OWN.      Happiness, is an inner quality. It is a state of mind. If your mind is at peace, you are happy. If your mind is at peace, but you have nothing else, you can be happy. If you have everything the world can give  pleasure, possessions, power ,but lack peace of mind, you can never be happy.      I knew a lovely young lady who was always in a relationship. You know the kind,maybe you’re the same,the moment one relationship ended, another started. I asked her once why this was, and she told me that she didn’t like being on her own so she made sure it never happened. When I got to know her well, she was with a man who was perfectly decent but who just didn’t give her the love she deserved. Why did she put up with it, I asked her. She patiently explained that she had no choice, because the alternative was being on her own, and she couldn’t cope with that option. ...

           GET OVER IT BEFORE YOU GET ON IT       So,we got to know last week that reinventing yourself when you meet your love is only a call for disaster. Be you no matter where you find yourself .Today we are going to talk about licking your wounds before getting into a new relationship.       We all get battered and bruised by life, that’s inevitable. Some of us come off worse than others. Of course, it’s the scars that give us character, so they’re not all bad in the long run. In the short term, we may need to recover before we re-enter the donnybrook.If your last relationship or two has left you a bit of an emotional wreck, it’s better to repair the damage before you start looking for a new lover and partner. Otherwise you won’t be able to show them the real you, and you won’t be able to focus on them if you're still spellbound on yourself.If you make a mistake with your new r...

                                   RULE 1: BE YOURSELF          I think I'm in love and it seems i am reinventing myself whenever i meet that person. Do you  think it is right for me to do that or not?. Unfortunately, most of us always seem to reinvent or change our lifestyles and personality, be who we think our new found love is looking for, which is very absurd.Sometimes you could become sophisticated, or maybe strong, silent, and mysterious. At the very least, you could stop embarrassing yourself by making jokes at inappropriate moments or being pathetic when dealing with problems.Actually, no you couldn’t. You might manage it for an evening or two, or even a month or two, but it’s going to be tough keeping it up forever. And if you think this person is the one you ,the...

                          ALL THINGS GROW WITH LOVE.     Love .Isn't it simple?Love, a word that comes and goes but do people really know what it really means to love somebody ?. You love your family and your friends ;they love you back.  You find a partner who love and who loves you back.And you don't even have to try  because it just happens .All true but you already know fully well that it's much more complex.     Love between people almost always has it's complications because people are complicated.Love can be tried , testesd and stretched to it's limits.Sometimes we love the wrong person and we can love too much or not enough.We can think love is enough,when actually it isn't.We can struggle to find it or be ensure if we've found it or not .And sometimes we think it's still there,but we can feel it ebbing away and no...