LIFE HACK: FOR MY MEN
10 WAYS TO WIN A GIRLS HEART
For the past few weeks ,we have been discussing rules for finding love and i hope we've all learnt something good from it . Today's article is mostly for my 'niggas' and brothers who are looking for ways to win that beautiful lady heart.Well,well,well are you ready to win your dream girl? Then lets get started ,here are 10 ways to win a girls heart.
1. Be pursuant:Pursue her without the pressure. In other words, don’t try to “front” and be cocky. Have a conversation first and show her you are interested beyond her appearance. You don’t have to come up with some crazy pickup line. You can simply say, “I want to introduce myself". Be sincere in wanting to get to know her.
2. Be a gentleman:Girls don’t want to be treated like a queen, but they do want to be treated like a prince. When you are walking alongside the street, you should be the one walking closest to the street. Being a gentleman is being selfless.
3.Be complimentary:Be nice enough to tell her she looks beautiful even without any make whatsoever.Its incredibly sexy if you do that.
4. Be creative:You don’t have to blow your bank account to impress her. Think outside the box.Show her what you can do best with your hands.
5. Be intentional:Invite her to parties, events, and game nights with your friends. Send her encouraging text messages,inspirational bible verses and quotes to make her smile.
6. Speak well of her in front of other people;Hold her hand. Pick-up artists recommend saying backhanded compliments, but nothing beats a genuine and sincere compliment.Treat her kindly in front of family and friends just as you do when you're alone.
7. Be attentive;Show her that you care for her and her needs. Pay attention to the small details. Girls care about the small stuff, big time.
8. Be protective
Don’t let her walk alone to her car. If she’s going on a jog or walk at night, tell her you want to go to keep her safe. If she’s going to the gas station at night, go with her. If you’re at a club and she needs to go to the restroom, take her there and wait outside the door.
9. Be a good listener;Ask solid open-ended questions that include “what,” “how,” and “why.” If you’re doing most of the talking, you’re not getting very far with her. Show her you care with body language and by repeating back some of what she just told you.
10. Be romantic;Plan ahead. What do you want your love story to be? You are the writer. When people ask where your first kiss was, you don’t want her to answer with the driveway or that you were drunk at a party.Let it be a very special moment for her to remember after you get married.
Be yourself ,there won’t be much longevity if she’s fallen for a false persona, and why would you want that anyway? There is no one else like you, so be confident. When you are walking in truth, game isn’t necessary. You’ve already won.SHALOM
With love,
AJ SMILE.
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1. Be pursuant:Pursue her without the pressure. In other words, don’t try to “front” and be cocky. Have a conversation first and show her you are interested beyond her appearance. You don’t have to come up with some crazy pickup line. You can simply say, “I want to introduce myself". Be sincere in wanting to get to know her.
2. Be a gentleman:Girls don’t want to be treated like a queen, but they do want to be treated like a prince. When you are walking alongside the street, you should be the one walking closest to the street. Being a gentleman is being selfless.
3.Be complimentary:Be nice enough to tell her she looks beautiful even without any make whatsoever.Its incredibly sexy if you do that.
4. Be creative:You don’t have to blow your bank account to impress her. Think outside the box.Show her what you can do best with your hands.
5. Be intentional:Invite her to parties, events, and game nights with your friends. Send her encouraging text messages,inspirational bible verses and quotes to make her smile.
6. Speak well of her in front of other people;Hold her hand. Pick-up artists recommend saying backhanded compliments, but nothing beats a genuine and sincere compliment.Treat her kindly in front of family and friends just as you do when you're alone.
7. Be attentive;Show her that you care for her and her needs. Pay attention to the small details. Girls care about the small stuff, big time.
8. Be protective
Don’t let her walk alone to her car. If she’s going on a jog or walk at night, tell her you want to go to keep her safe. If she’s going to the gas station at night, go with her. If you’re at a club and she needs to go to the restroom, take her there and wait outside the door.
9. Be a good listener;Ask solid open-ended questions that include “what,” “how,” and “why.” If you’re doing most of the talking, you’re not getting very far with her. Show her you care with body language and by repeating back some of what she just told you.
10. Be romantic;Plan ahead. What do you want your love story to be? You are the writer. When people ask where your first kiss was, you don’t want her to answer with the driveway or that you were drunk at a party.Let it be a very special moment for her to remember after you get married.
Be yourself ,there won’t be much longevity if she’s fallen for a false persona, and why would you want that anyway? There is no one else like you, so be confident. When you are walking in truth, game isn’t necessary. You’ve already won.SHALOM
With love,
AJ SMILE.
Shalom indeed some of it is true and applies if and only if you understand the personality of the person in question
ReplyDeleteperfectly laid out
ReplyDeleteKudos
Lovely piece. I personally like number 9. Be a good listener.
ReplyDeleteAnd finally a good oral hygiene...😁😁
ReplyDeleteYhyh its cool tho
ReplyDeleteWoow...such great tips.
ReplyDeleteIt's rather unfortunate most men fail in this aspect.